Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of James Dickman with the following comment:
Hello,Eleanor Straughan was the first wife of my 3x great grandfather, Robert Straughan. I notice that you do not have the relationship on your website. Eleanor Straughan was Dickman before she was married and therefore is buried with her parents, John and Phillis Dickman.Regards Chris Lewan